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[2021-06-07 02:02:16] <Lucifer_arma> apparently I'm migrating to the pi faster than I thought
[2021-06-07 02:02:18] <Lucifer_arma> my laptop is dead
[2021-06-07 02:02:56] <Lucifer_arma> that means my massive parallel computing cluster now only has two pis, not the three I had originally planned
[2021-06-07 02:03:51] <Lucifer_arma> so this ongoing mother-in-law drama is pissing me right the fuck off
[2021-06-07 02:04:08] <Lucifer_arma> my wife showed up earlier today and said things like "she hid it really well" and "there was no way to tell"
[2021-06-07 02:04:44] <Lucifer_arma> I *knew* her mother was neglecting self-care and building a cave of crap around her, and I warned her repeatedly that she needed to be checking in with her mom regularly
[2021-06-07 02:05:01] <Lucifer_arma> I've seen her disheveled, wearing clearly unwashed clothes, and all that
[2021-06-07 02:05:11] <Lucifer_arma> and I fucking RAISED THE ALARM on it all!
[2021-06-07 02:05:21] <Lucifer_arma> now my wife's all "Nobody could have known!"
[2021-06-07 02:05:26] <Lucifer_arma> FUCK THAT BITCH
[2021-06-07 02:05:28] <Lucifer_arma> I KNEW
[2021-06-07 02:05:52] <Lucifer_arma> why didn't she listen to me? She's going to be lucky if her mom survives this, and it was all completely preventable!
[2021-06-07 02:06:40] <Lucifer_arma> you see why I'm pissed. I don't like the mother-in-law, but I certainly never wished anything like this upon her. I want her to live. I want her to keep hating me! She can't do that if she's dead!
[2021-06-07 02:07:13] <Lucifer_arma> Also, it's exactly how HER mom died. The grandmother died back around 2013/2014. She did the same thing.
[2021-06-07 02:07:31] <Lucifer_arma> She hoarded a bunch of stuff, ran off all of her friends, so she lived completely alone.
[2021-06-07 02:07:49] <Lucifer_arma> Then she fell, and being old and whatnot, was unable to get up. Like the old commercial.
[2021-06-07 02:07:53] <Lucifer_arma> Then she died of starvation
[2021-06-07 02:08:23] <Lucifer_arma> Really? Nobody could see this coming? It literally happened just a few years ago one generation up, and nobody thought it could happen again?
[2021-06-07 02:08:47] <Lucifer_arma> This whole bury your head and ignore all problems problem is EXACTLY WHY WE'RE GETTING DIVORCED
[2021-06-07 02:09:05] <Lucifer_arma> I'm not surprised about any of this! I'm just fucking pissed.
[2021-06-07 02:10:27] <Lucifer_arma> Anyway, I looked at the house today, and so far, code enforcement hasn't made a move on it.
[2021-06-07 02:10:47] <Lucifer_arma> Adult Protective Services is involved, so they're probably waiting to see if my mother-in-law even survives
[2021-06-07 02:11:00] <Lucifer_arma> current medial diagnosis is serious malnutrition
[2021-06-07 02:11:19] <Lucifer_arma> look, all of you need to go and check on the elderly people in your life. Grandparents, parents, doesn't matter.
[2021-06-07 02:11:32] <Lucifer_arma> Go check on them. Don't let them die of starvation because they fell down.
[2021-06-07 02:12:03] <Lucifer_arma> I don't care why you do it. Do it because you love them, or do it because I'm pissed and you want me to not be so angry.
[2021-06-07 02:12:11] <Lucifer_arma> I don't care. Just fucking do it!
[2021-06-07 02:13:39] <Lucifer_arma> Ok, I'm done ranting for now. Meetings have already started up, and I lit a fire under their ass, and people may actually show up on Tuesday. That's the most appropriate place for me to have these rants, so hopefully that'll happen.
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[2021-06-07 05:20:58] <Lucifer_arma> Reasons I stick around here: I can be a dick, but I still always get support here
[2021-06-07 05:21:22] <Lucifer_arma> Compared to the recovery dharma drama, my one and only regular attending member just told me he's not going to be there this time
[2021-06-07 05:21:34] <Lucifer_arma> after last time, when he said he'd miss that one, but he'd be there for the next one
[2021-06-07 05:22:10] <Lucifer_arma> and people genuinely wonder why I feel like I'm all alone in this world.
[2021-06-07 05:22:17] <Lucifer_arma> Except here. I'm not alone here.
[2021-06-07 05:22:38] <Lucifer_arma> I mean, sometimes I get bitch-slapped here, but I usually deserve it when that happens. :)
[2021-06-07 05:23:12] <Lucifer_arma> but at least there are friends here. For now. You know, until we finally fold up because someone else took over. I hope we stay in touch then.
[2021-06-07 05:23:25] <Lucifer_arma> but it also looks like that's never going to happen. so, there's that. ;)
[2021-06-07 17:03:14] <Z-Man> Who would WANT to take over?
[2021-06-07 17:04:55] <Z-Man> Sucks about your mother-in-law. I hope she makes it out, gets and accepts the help she needs, and gets to hate your guts for many more years.
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[2021-06-07 17:39:06] <Z-Man> Don't worry about my closest elderlies. The most problematic cases would be the siser of my mother-in-law (aunt-in-law?), who has occasional depressions, but she's already living in some sort of nursery home ("supported living" it's called, she has a normal flat but can get various forms of assisntance as needed) and her youngest son visits her often. My mom sadly is suffering from dementia. Her long term memory is still working, but
[2021-06-07 17:39:06] <Z-Man> mostly in read only mode, and the short term memory is severly limited. It's painful to watch, but at least her personality is intact and my dad is with her and quite a bit younger and fitter. And her condition seems to be somewhat stable, at least I haven't noticed it getting worse over the past year.
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